The Pros and Cons of having a first look... 

Here are some things to consider

Pros of Having a First Look

Private, Intimate Moment: The first look is often more personal and intimate than seeing each other for the first time at the altar. It allows the couple to experience that special moment together in a private setting.

Reduces Pre-Ceremony Nerves: Seeing your partner before the ceremony can help calm nerves. Many couples report feeling more relaxed and at ease after the first look

More Time for Photos: By doing a first look, you can get a large portion of your formal portraits and couple photos done before the ceremony. This can free up time after the ceremony to enjoy the cocktail hour or reception without feeling rushed

Shared Emotional Experience: Having a first look can give you a moment to truly express your feelings. You might not be able to talk or show emotions during the ceremony as freely as you can in a first look

Better for Evening Ceremonies: If you're having an evening or sunset ceremony, doing a first look ensures you’ll have plenty of natural light for your portraits and family photos before it gets dark.

Cons of Having a First Look

Breaks Tradition: The traditional aspect of not seeing each other until the ceremony is something many couples cherish. A first look can take away that suspenseful moment of seeing each other at the aisle for the first time

Less Surprise at the Altar: Some couples worry that seeing each other before the ceremony might lessen the emotional impact when walking down the aisle. If you value that raw, emotional first glance in front of your guests, the first look could reduce that moment's intensity

Alters Wedding Day Timeline: A first look requires you to be ready earlier in the day, which could mean starting hair and makeup earlier. For some, the additional time pressures might feel stressful

Emotional Overwhelm: For couples who are very emotional, a first look might bring out intense emotions that could affect the rest of the day. Some may prefer saving all their emotions for the ceremony

Not as Authentic for Some Couples: The setting for a first look is usually staged for photography, which might feel less authentic to couples who prefer a more organic experience when seeing each other for the first time.

Ultimately, whether or not to have a first look depends on your personal preferences, values, and how you envision your wedding day flowing. It’s a decision unique to each couple!